Becoming Her: When You Feel Too Insecure to Lead (Even in Your Own Life)
There was a time when I barely recognized the woman in the mirror.
I’d get up, go to work, come home, and collapse on the couch too exhausted from holding it all together. I was functioning, but not living. I felt like I had nothing left to give, and the weight of “not being enough” was heavier than I wanted to admit. I was just too insecure.
After a failed relationship and a few too many nights wondering if I’d ever feel confident again, I realized something: I believed God had made me beautifully and uniquely, but only in my head. I didn’t feel it in my heart.
And honestly? That disconnect broke me. I was such a mess that at one point my boss called me into his office. That wasn’t too fun at all. At least he was sympathetic, but basically, I needed to get it figured out.
But here’s the good news about our God: He doesn’t wait for us to have it all together before He starts rebuilding us. He meets us right where we are, even in the middle of the mess….and yeah, it was (I was)…a mess!
He will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning. - Isaiah 61:3 (NLT)
Somewhere between tears and takeout, I began praying for clarity and confidence. (Okay, after the takeout. Priorities, right?) Slowly, God started showing me that my insecurity wasn’t a sign of weakness. No in fact it was actually Him giving me a nudge to grow closer to Him.
That’s what inspired me to create my new free guide, especially for YOU, and with you in mind. I didn’t want anyone else to feel the way I’d been feeling. So, here’s your free printable, inspired and created just for you:
🔗 Becoming Her: When You Feel Too Insecure to Lead (Even in Your Own Life) — A 5-Day Guide to Finding Confidence and Clarity Through Christ.
This is for you if you feel stuck, so stuck that you’re just not even taking good care of yourself, even though you still believe that there’s more. There’s this little voice whispering, “I wish I could get over this so I can feel more peace, confidence, and purpose on the inside.
This isn’t another “pull yourself up by the bootstraps” workbook. No, this is a gentle, grace-filled journey to rediscover who you already are. And who are you? Well, you’re God’s daughter, fully loved and capable.
“God doesn’t call the qualified. He qualifies the called.”
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So if you’ve been doubting yourself lately, wondering whether you can really become the woman God designed you to be…
you can. You absolutely can.
Download your free 5-day guide below and let’s walk this journey together — one prayer, one page, one step closer to becoming her.🔗 Download Becoming Her Free Today

Oh, and by the way, I did write about this in my weekly blog about 6 weeks ago. If you want some more insight, head over to: When You Feel Too Insecure to Lead (Even in Your Own Life)
Catch ya next week! Love and prayers always. K.Kay
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