10 Super Simple Ways to Feel, Be, & Live More Confidently

10 Super Simple Ways to Feel, Be, & Live More Confidently

Are you ok?  I mean, really…ok?  I only ask because there are points in my life when I am not “ok”.  I figure that’s true for most of us, but lately it’s really been holding me back.  How about you?

Have you got your sights set on a dream…one that has been on your heart for a while now? Achieving that dream doesn’t have to be the colossal headache that everyone makes it out to be, but for some reason, focusing on that dream and achieving that dream has a huge chasm in between it.  Why?

I can’t do it. I don’t have time. I’m not good enough.  I don’t have the money.  And the biggest lies of all… I’m not good enough.  And I know I’ll fail, so why bother?

Sound familiar?

You’re not alone. Believe it or not, thoughts like these are common when you’re just starting out, and even if you’re a veteran creative blogger like me. We all have fears when we try new things.

But they’re definitely holding you back from achieving that dream (you know the one I’m talking about…the BIG DREAM you have)…your “some-day” dream.

The worst limiting belief I had was thinking I could do it all on my own.  I told myself that nobody understands my dream of owning my own business, so I just had to do it alone.  Boy how wrong I was!

Since then, I’ve learned a lot and I can’t wait to share it all with you. 

The truth is: confidence isn’t something you either have or don’t have. It’s something you build. And the best part? It doesn’t require a complete life overhaul. Just a few intentional shifts in the way you talk to yourself and walk through your day.

So take a deep breath and settle in to learn 10 Super Simple Feel, Be, & Live More Confidently and achieve that dream you have been putting off without having to go broke and lose yourself in the process.

Here are 10 Super Simple Ways to Feel, Be, & Live More Confidently

1. Catch your inner critic in the act.
Would you talk to a friend the way you talk to yourself? If not, it’s time to flip the script. Start by noticing those quiet, sneaky jabs like “You’re not good enough” or “This is probably a waste of time.” Awareness is step one. Confidence grows in truth, not in tearing yourself down.

2. Stop apologizing for having a voice.
You don’t have to start every idea with “Sorry, but…” or “This might be silly, but…” Your thoughts matter. Speak like you believe it. Not louder — just clearer.

3. Speak Life Affirming Thoughts –
Replace thoughts like “I should be further along” with “I’m still becoming.”
There’s no race here. Growth isn’t linear, and confidence isn’t built overnight. Let go of the pressure to be perfect and lean into progress instead.

4. Don’t do it alone (even if you could).
“I can do it myself” might sound strong, but real strength is knowing when to say, “I could do this alone… but why, when more ideas could lead to something even better?” Invite collaboration. Confidence isn’t about isolation — it’s about knowing your value in community. Besides! People love to help! Think about it, how do you feel when people ask you for your thoughts?

5. Celebrate small wins like they’re big deals (because they are).
Got out of bed on a hard day? Win. Sent the email you were avoiding? Win. Spoke up in a meeting? Major win. Confidence builds when you start noticing how capable you already are…and the more you practice it, the better you are at it.

6. Be curious instead of critical.
Next time something doesn’t go as planned, resist the urge to beat yourself up. Ask: “What can I learn from this?” Confidence is curiosity that keeps going.

7. Say no like you mean it.
Not every good opportunity is your opportunity. Learning to say no with kindness (and without guilt) creates space for the right yeses. And that, friend, is powerful.

8. Walk in the room like you belong there — because you do.
Confidence doesn’t mean having all the answers. It just means showing up fully as yourself, shoulders relaxed, head held high. Not fake. Not forced. Just grounded.

9. Take one brave step (even if your knees are shaking).
Action comes before assurance. Don’t wait to feel fearless — take the step anyway. Confidence follows motion.

10. Listen for the quiet voice reminding you: You were made for this.
There’s a kind of confidence that doesn’t come from effort, hustle, or pep talks. It comes from a deeper place — the still, steady whisper that reminds you:
You are seen. You are equipped. You are becoming exactly who you’re meant to be.

Confidence isn’t about never doubting yourself — it’s about not letting the doubt stop you.

So, start with one of these today. Not all ten. Just one. Because even the smallest step in the right direction counts.

And if no one has told you lately:
You’re doing better than you think.
You’ve got what it takes — it’s already in you.
And you’re not alone on the journey.

Here’s help to get your start – Your First Step

And finally, I created a 5-Minute Reset Guide – Break Free from Negative Self-talk  to help you get started with turning around your thinking to Life Affirming self-talk that will help to guide you to your dream.

Click here to download Your Free 5-Minute Reset Guide – Break Free from Negative Self-talk now  https://myicanstory.store/

Comment, share, and tag a friend!  You can’t do this alone, so bring them along on your journey.

I’d love to hear from you…write me and let me know how this article spurred you into action on your dreams!

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